Join Discussion on Book Written by County Employee

Join the County of San Diego Filipino-American Employees Association and the Middle Eastern Employee Resource Group in a virtual discussion of a book by a County employee.  

Davinder Kaur, a supervising office assistant with Probation, is the author of “Forced to Marry Him: A Lifetime of Tradition and the Will to Break It.” Her book will be discussed from 5:30 to 7 p.m., March 29.

Download the e-book through the San Diego County Library or online and RSVP to the book discussion now.

Book Description:

In the late 1980s, Davinder Kaur was forced to marry a man she didn't know. When she was only 14 years old, the marriage was arranged and set to occur when she turned 18. After four long years of internal turmoil and despair, she had two choices: adhere to the customs and traditions of her family or risk bringing dishonor to their home. Kaur didn't like either option, so she made a plan—a plan to survive.

Kaur tells of the pain, lies, and betrayal she suffered at the hands of those who were meant to protect her the most. But her story doesn't end there. Her willingness to speak out and fight not only saved her life but the lives of many other women and young girls over the years. She offers courage and strength to those who can't advocate for themselves, and she works with organizations all over the world to help end arranged and forced marriages. Kaur gives a voice to the voiceless as she breaks down walls to eradicate cultural and traditional abuse.

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